How High is Your Romance Compatibility Indicator?

June 15th, 2009

Rmaance Compatability Indicator How high is your romance compatibility indicator?

Years ago I lived in London at at time when I did not have much self esteem. This meant that I was shy when meeting girls and consequently spent several years longing for, but not having a girlfriend.

I had in my mind the perfect girlfriend – tall, big breasted, highly intelligent, laughing, smiling, the life and soul of any party. I could not figure out why I could not find someone like that.

Now I am a lot wiser and have a beautiful partner who I am engaged to whom I have known for about a year and a half. She would never had looked at me if she met me when I lived in London. I did not possess the qualities then that she was looking for in a man.

Are you looking for your perfect partner? How do you go about finding him or her?

I now realise that where I went wrong was focusing on how my perfect partner would look and how what her personality would be like. This is the wrong place to start. Start by looking at yourself. If you want to attract a partner who is confident, outgoing and good looking, then you need to develop these qualities in yourself.

Start with developing confidence. If you lack confidence, then this will show up in your body language, and unconsciously a person who you view as a possible partner will sense this. If they are confident themselves then they will probably reject you. If they too have low self esteem then there is the danger that they can see you as a means of boosting their own self esteem. This is what often motivates the bully or person who is violent to their partner. Confident people do not feel the need to express themselves through violence.

One proven way to become confident is through a confidence hypnosis cd. This can reveal where your lack of confidence stems from and what to do about it.

As you develop your character and become more confident, compassionate and have a zest for life then what I term your romance compatibility indicator increases. You are then more likely to attract someone who is your ideal partner. If you have none of these qualities – how on earth do you expect someone who has these qualities be attracted to you?

As you learn the art of positive self development you will attract positive and vibrant people to you – and one of them could be the love of your life.

Why not start today to increase your romance compatibility indicator?